Spider’s dad in Avatar 2 is Colonel Miles Quaritch. The movie reveals that the human boy Spider, whose full name is Miles Socorro, is the son of Quaritch and Paz Socorro.
Spider grows up far from his father on Pandora.

The Direct Answer

Colonel Miles Quaritch is Spider’s biological father. The RDA officer returns in Avatar: The Way of Water and the film confirms the connection.
Spider is Miles Socorro, taking his first name from his father. Quaritch recognizes Spider as his son, and that reveal shapes their tense relationship throughout the film.
You can see the emotional weight of that bond in how Spider resists Quaritch, even while feeling drawn to him.
Why He Is Called Miles Socorro Instead
Spider uses his mother’s last name, Socorro, because he grows up without Quaritch in his life.
According to the Avatar Wiki relationship page, Spider never really knew his father and only heard stories about him.
That is why he is known as Miles Socorro, not Miles Quaritch.
How Spider Ended Up With The Sullys

Spider’s place with the Sullys comes from circumstance, not blood. He is a human child on Pandora who cannot live like the Na’vi.
Still, he grows up close to Jake Sully, Neytiri, and their family.
Why Jake Sully And Neytiri Raised Him On Pandora
Spider stays on Pandora after the first film because he cannot return to Earth.
By the time Avatar: The Way of Water begins, Jake and Neytiri act as his protectors, even if Neytiri does not fully accept him the way Jake does.
His bond with the Sullys is a mix of care, habit, and shared survival.
Why Spider Grew Up Around The Na’vi
Spider spends most of his life around the Na’vi because Pandora is his home.
He learns their ways, roams the forest, and picks up their customs, even though he is human.
That closeness makes him feel like part of the world without fully belonging to it.
What The Movie Reveals About His Parents

Avatar: The Way of Water gives the clearest on-screen version of Spider’s family history.
It confirms the father reveal in the film itself and adds more depth through outside lore about his mother, Paz Socorro.
What Avatar: The Way of Water Confirms On Screen
The movie confirms that Spider is Quaritch’s son when Quaritch recognizes him and later calls him “son.”
That reveal shapes the rest of the story, especially Spider’s final choice to save him.
The film keeps the emotional reaction more important than the biology.
What Expanded Lore Says About Paz Socorro
Spider’s mother is Paz Socorro, a Scorpion pilot tied to Quaritch’s team.
The Avatar Wiki entry on Paz Socorro says she died shortly after Spider’s birth, and that she cared for him before her death.
That history helps explain why Spider carries so much loss even before the events of Avatar 2.
Why This Reveal Matters

This reveal changes how you see Spider’s choices, because his father is not a distant memory, he is a living enemy.
The twist also adds more pressure to Jake Sully, Neytiri, and the rest of the family as the conflict grows inside Avatar 2.
How Quaritch’s Return Changes Spider’s Role
Miles Quaritch’s return turns Spider into more than a side character.
He becomes the bridge between the Sullys and Quaritch, making every choice he makes feel personal.
What It Means For Future Avatar Movies
This family twist gives the next films more to work with.
Spider’s split loyalty can keep affecting his bond with Jake, Neytiri, and Quaritch.
The story can explore more emotional conflict as the franchise builds around family, identity, and survival.